A phrase with a profound importance, but not always thought of.
Many of us enjoyed the weddng day and the bliss of the moment - this is usually considered at the "better". None of us on that day every stop to think how would I handle the "worst". Not one of us wants to go there. The truth of the matter is that these type of days will come and even persist for a long time. Such days affect our emotional state, our financial state, our health, and no doubt our marital relationship. The "worst" may be a quarrel, layoff from one's job, memnopause, adultery, excessive drinking, gambling, obesity, erectile dysfunction, are a terminal illness. We just do not know how the "worst" will come, but it will come.The script is not written in any set format, and how we will perform on the set is anybody's guess.
The "worst" is a test of our character and love. When we signed in for marriage, we login for the "worst" and we must understand that. The question is how do we deal with it. My suggestion is that there is no simple answer. I believe that the level of love for our partners will determine how we deal with the "worst", for me, its an individual thing. May be it's best at some quiet time together discuss with your partner the various forms of the "worst" and how each of you are likely to deal with these challenges. You may be quite surprise!
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