Thursday, May 28, 2009

Relationship Misery

As I stated in my previous blog, courtship teaches us lessons that we ignore and despite everything, we still cohabitate and live through the experiences of one partner bickering about the same old habits brought into the relationship by the other partner. Misery then raises it head.

Relationship misery is the consequence of many behaviours, here are a few examples:
  1. Men dropping their shoes and pieces of clothing all over the house.
  2. Men when urinating spray the toilet seat with particles of urine.
  3. Incorrectly placing a roll of toilet paper with the loose end hanging to the front.
  4. Women using the same old excuse to get away from sex.
  5. Women spending what they do not have and running up high credit card debt.
Have you every noticed that almost immediately after sex, one partner will find something to fret about, which does not relate to the previous act of intimacy? There are many more acts of relationship misery, some can be termed misdemeanours, some are serious crime against the relationship. The more serious, the more miserable the partners.

The point is that partners differ in personalities and will at times perceive situation differently. Here's a simply remedy. When there is a complaint or you are blame for an act. if you are at fault, simply say "sorry babes". Just do not try to explain or justify your action. In the heat of the moment, partners will react.

Simple isn't it!

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