The Obamas' marriage principle in this blog defines the happiness of a married couple and speaks volumes about a satisfied relationship between a man and woman. Even in public, the bliss of marriage is exemplified. It is this aura that all marriages should reflex. It is that character that becomes the trade mark by which friends, family and acquantances admire and try to imitate.To achieve the Obamas marriage principle one must first hold fast to the vows taken no matter what and have respect for each other in public. Therefore, a matter that creates differences of opinion should not be turned into a public spectacle that brings shame to the family. Wait until you reach home and deal with the matter. Always exhibit a sense of decorum in public. Chauvinism must never be hinted by the husband, but rather an exhibition of the social graces that make the wife proud to be treated as nothing less than a lady.
The holding of hands in public expresses the warmth of the union. When a husband or wife walks way ahead of each other, it depicts some element of discord in their relationship, regardless of how slight is the discord. The closeness of being side by side engenders cordial conversations, jovial behaviour and a mood that speaks to the high level of comfort felt in each other's presence. All of this augurs well for a lasting marriage.
Enjoy each other's company in public. Have fun!
