Some husbands believe that the signing of the marriage certificate gives them the right to own their wives. Slavery has long been abolished and in today's world no woman should treated as though she was someone's property. The marriage contract is not a title deed.
I have seen husbands do everything to prevent their wives from going out with their friends or attending social events by themselves. The action of some husbands range from jealousy to physical abuse to create fear that results in their wives' refusal of invitations or opportunities to have an entertaining time; instead these wives who are controlled stay at home to allow peace to reign.
But do these jealous husbands realize that their lack of trust only drives their wives to engage the very adulterous behaviour, the same thing these husbands fear. The fact that a wife is at home, does not mean that she is not engaging in acts of adultery. A word of advice, if a woman wants to "horn" you there is nothing you can do to stop it. She will create a scheme to teach you a lesson. Why fit her so tightly? She already has enough underwears and surely does not want an uncomfortable one.
Men get "horn" because they irresponsible, unkind, insensitive, abusive and simply foolish. In response, the wives find comfort in those males or females who show them the interest and love their need. In conclusion, as husbands do the right things, honour your vows, and give your wife her freedom. There is an old saying - if you let a bird out of a cage and it returns to you, you are its rightful owner. If it flies away and never returns, you were never its owner in the first place.
A wife's freedom is important to a lasting relationship. Marriage is build on trust try to enhance it.
