The Bible gives us instructions for living life as married persons. The book of Timothy 1 chapter 3, verses 2 to 4 is very instructive for the husbands. " Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money" (Taken from the New International Version)
Let's take this bit by bit. Firstly "above reproach" means that husbands should perform their roles so as to be precluded from any blame or criticism. The truth is that no one is perfect, but it does not hurt for the male partner to act and do things that are acceptable.
" the husband but of one wife" If your are a loving husband in a culture of Western society, why would you want to have another women, but your wife. Adultery creates more issues and problems in your life and sets the family back. Some never recover from the inconsiderate act of such passion.
The ability of the husband to teach is an interesting feature. I believe that teaching here means the the husband should impart knowledge based on his experiences in life. Bad experiences inform us where we went wrong and teach us lessons for life. Therefore, with in the family setting the husband should use the lessons of life to instruct and influence his relationship with his wife in a positive way.
Being temperate in ones behaviour simply means that one must be restrain oneself. Listen first and think before considering one's action. Never be to hasty. Following this recommendation leads us to adopt a self-control. self-control leads to a harmonious relations which enhances love between husband and wife. Respect now becomes the hallmark of one's marriage.
Drunkenness or addiction to drugs impairs one ability to adequately face up to the challenges of marriage life. To consume alcohol and be abusive is a to renege on one's responsibility and commitment to the marriage. Being in an inebriated state very often leads to escalating abuse. Quarrels often breakout and the beautiful colours of love begins to dye in a solvent of alcohol.
It is simple. Marriage is based on a foundation of principles that govern the marital relationship. The Bible is a great reference book for enhancing bliss in one's marriage. Read it.
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