The question of compatibility is a valid one, which dates back to the Bible under the concept of "evenly yoked". How do you know that you and your partner are evenly yoked? Is it a matter of marrying a person with the same religious beliefs? In the real world there are couples who met each other while worshiping in the same church got married in the same church and got divorce through the judicial system. One that other hand, there are situations where one person is a member of a church and the other is a non-member and their married is working well. There are situations where some "non-church goers" have bad marriages and other in this group have good marriages. So where's the beef!
I my opinion its is not about who is in the church, surely this will help couples to establish the foundation for a good marriage, if both partners adhere to the Christian principles. I believe that the essence of compatibility is simple living with your partner in a relationship without too many disagreements, that is, being on the same page. You are compatible when these things occur continuously"
- You laugh at the same things and yourselves
- There is agreement, without coercion, on payment of the bills, saving, spending and other financial issues.
- Decision-making is a consequence of amicable discussion and compromise and not quarrel.
- The shortcomings of one partner is strengthened by the other.
- Honesty predominates all facets of the relationship.
- Illness is not seen as an inconvenience by one partner, but as an opportunity to show one's affection.
- Vacations are planned to re-energize the relationship.
- Sex is an enjoyable experience and not a obligation.
- Children are the responsibility of both and a hindrance of one.
- Worship is practised by both.
- A partner's space is allowed.
